I am enjoying a few moments of peace :)

I had my first and what I thought only via IVF at 41 (a DD) then a year later became pregnant with our son by “accident” I guess. 🙂 We weren’t trying but also not not trying if that makes sense. Little guy is going to celebrate one year here in late January and I will turn 44 in April. Living in WDC this is normal actually, and not considered unusual so I wantyou to know that whatever age you are it’s awesome to have a child and you will enjoy him/her, I’m sure! 🙂
You are on the right path and have a good attitude. I don’t really have any DR advice as we are debt free at the moment and trying to build both our retirement savings and college savings and also a “things to fix around the house” fund….slow going but we are committed.
Take care of yourself — baby comes first! I say this as my little ones are napping and I am enjoying a few moments of peace. 🙂